By Laura Aguilar Ramírez. I'd like to share you an article that I find interesting in the truth of some of his claims. However, I would also like to emphasize what they do not agree. Is rather simple, indeed, but important to fully understand the article:
The concept of "holiness" to drive. It's a matter of interest in that of what is said, simply.
I can not refute or use terms without knowing what it is.
Mention the word "holy" on several occasions, referring to the spirit of sacrifice, and mention it in some way derogatory.
holiness and selflessness have nothing to do with that concept.
Holiness is to be holy as Jesus is said so himself: "Be holy as I am, ye holy as God is our Father."
And Jesus loved above all, was teacher, friend, counselor, confidant, healer. Do not hesitate to draw attention, where necessary, and neither did when he needed comfort.
sacrifice did not die for nothing. Died for those who believed in Him, that none of them was lost. And he died to resurrect and pass the Holy Spirit.
That is holiness, the opposite of the concept is handled in the article. Nor
devotion referred to as "devoted mother" has nothing to do with the real concept. The devotion is loyalty. is not to betray him, or what they will think or what you love.
and much less with the concept of submission that is handled. The submission is to be united together a. ... a. .. that has nothing to do with abuse or anything like that.
In that sense, the Mexican mothers we are sacred because correct, love, heal, orient, etc etc. Submissive, because we are bound to our children. And devout, because we love, because we are faithful to our children. Live
then, holy mothers, submissive and devoted!
Then the article gave rise to this commentary, with the clarification that also put it in the magazine who wrote it.
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The "Holy Mother" by train current work could be an endangered species, since society tends to go to the opposite pole, because the train current job.
When you think of a Mexican mother come to mind a number of defining characteristics. As the sacrifice, selflessness and devotion, and suffering, or put another way, "the mother of one who gives everything for their children." "But this attitude toward life, and confirmed mainly by ester eotip you of Mexican cinema in its golden age, formed many generations that were marked by a series of psychological disorders that were not always positive" says Dr. Adriana Gonzalez Padilla, director of the BA in Psychology from the Institute of Social Research in Clinical Psychology (IIPCS).
"Being a" Holy Mother "meant a huge sacrifice. Giving" absolutely everything for the kids, "relates to a series of dissatisfactions of women, ranging from low self-esteem, too much insecurity, narcissism implicit and frustration towards life, as their role in society and before the man was secondary. Therefore, the "Holy Mother" is in their children a desire that means having everything you did not have or could never do that intends to do or have, but through their children, "said Dr. Joseph Jesus Gonzalez Nunez, president of the body. Negatives
One of the characteristics of the "Holy Mother" is the sob Reprotec tion of their children. And
"love in excess" was not free, because it generated a number of psychological disorders: "Human beings can be dependent and unable to fend for themselves, where guilt is the norm that governed his life, because to the unconditional mother's mind is the fact that their children are their property. This can crystallize in quotations and common use "as a mother I gave you everything and now looks like you pay me, "the mother of one is the most sacred in life," said the specialist.
The typical Mexican devoted mother sees her children as their property and for that reason, you can disable, but there its counterpart: the father "typically Mexican or Mexican male, which did not take charge of their children, and that following this paradigm, the only man to take paternity met the economic support to the family." Several generations have experienced the fact not have a strong father figure, so that mothers were about the educators of their children, that is why we see many Mexicans who are unable to follow rules and are unruly, because had a father soon, "said González Núñez.
Positives
However, the archetype of" Holy Mother "can esc r tie positive aspects." The devoted mother also transmits the values \u200b\u200bof family unity, the value of life, care and protection and even the commitment and responsibility " , said Dr. Jose de Jesus.
" We must say that this paradigm is changing and in many cases are assimilating the positive values. The modern Mexican mother, may no longer have time to be devoted and dedicated, by same economy of families, why women like men have to work. Mexican family in the modern and functional, both are responsible for the education of their children, which is creating generations of Mexicans more independent, secure and confident in themselves, "said the specialist.
The doctor did not deny that the archetypal the "Holy Mother" continued developed, however, said that the modern mother molds are changing their role. "The mother who gives everything that passes over itself will remain. There is a myth and this group of women, unfortunately, it will be denied to live life for themselves. " In contrast
Mexican society is tending to go the opposite: "On this train of life in many families not only absent father, but also the mother. It is obvious that they are generating companies who are not assimilating the values \u200b\u200binherent in family relationships, hence, we see that young people are more rebellious, unruly and aggressive than ever, "said Dr. Adriana Gonzalez Padilla.
In this sense, the psychologist suggested the need for Mexican families resume these positive values, "none of opposites is good, more responsible responsibility Ades with mothers and fathers should always have time to live and raise children. Otherwise people will be building partnerships with a number of shortcomings "concluded González Núñez.
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